To my future self

Dear Adeola, Ayomide, Sarah or whatever you decide to call yourself, this is a letter to you, a letter filled with questions and hoping for a response.

Did you dream big in 2026? Did you actually look beyond your current situation and circumstance and aspire for more out of life? Did you get what you aspired for? Even if not everything, but did you graze the surface of those dreams? How did you take each day as it came? Were you majorly casual and let your days roll in, or did you take initiative each day to change the narrative? How often did you fail or fall down? Was 2026 a year we failed a lot but learnt just as much? Or did you let your failures get to you and then you held back on dreaming? Did you start the company? How is it going? If you didn't, why didn't you? Did you start any new projects? Oh girllll I know you did. Did you learn a new skill? Show meeee? Hope you videoed each special moments? If you didn't we will fight o

Are you still closing up emotionally? Fearing what vulnerability would do to you? Do you still crave to know more about people? Did you ever open up about those inner thoughts that scream what you desire in a relationship? Did you ever let him have access to know you more than just what you wanted or allowed to be known? Did you speak up about the things that break your heart? And the things that keep you up at night? DO YOU STILL FEAR BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP? do you still question whether you can ever be a great spouse to the great person you'd like to get together with? Did you get together with him? I highly doubt there was a one, but just for formality was he the one?

Did you buckle under the weight? Did you settle for the ordinary? Did you stretch yourself? Did you dig deeper and work harder for more people to know? DID YOU RAISE MEN FOR HIM AND HIS MISSION? Not just okay men, but passionate drivers? Did you learn how your role In their life affected how they showed up? Did you pour more of yourself into them?

Adeola, are you happy? Are you well? Are you okay with showing up daily even when it doesn't benefit you? Are you content, but still aspiring? Did you give in to the noise, or are you still holding your head up high? Are you careless with it or are you sharing with reason? Did you cry over the losses, did you lose? I mean of course you'd lose because money isn't something that stays forever, but how much was lost? And lost doing what? Hope you're more accountable for your giving?

Did you speak to each of them regularly? Did you show them how much you appreciated them? Did you remind them of their relevance in your life? Did you pray for them? Are you guys still talking? Hope you didn't give up on the relationships? Did you forgive easily again this year? You go girl

This and many more I have to ask you Adeola, I'd really love to get your response at the end of the year.

Oh and for the audience reading this, what's one question you'd need your 2026 self to answer, ask now before the year ends. Send it here as your achieve and I'd remind you to answer it next year. But until then

REMEMBER MEEEEEE 💋❤️